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Keys to Cooperative Co-Parenting After Divorce
 by Rachel Frawley

Keys to Cooperative Co-Parenting After Divorce

Keys to cooperative co-parenting when going through a divorce successfully can be complicated.  Children of divorce do best when both of their parents continue to be actively involved in their lives. It’s the ongoing connection that makes the positive difference for these children, minimizing the fact that their parents no longer live together.

Cooperative co-parenting is universally encouraged and because it is encouraged after divorce it can reduce the long-term negative emotional impact on children. Cooperative Co-parenting styles and arrangements can differ widely from family to family to suit their individual needs.   Professionals agree that co-parenting will only succeed if some basic agreements are made and kept.   This will help avoid significant mistakes.

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 by Rachel Frawley

DAWN Sponsors The Yoga Movement – Yoga At The Zoo!

DAWN happily sponsored The Yoga Movement – Yoga At The Zoo on Sunday, June 29th 2014! It was a very successful event that brought 600+ people together for a great morning of yoga, music and fun. From beginner to expert, Yoga At The Zoo turned out to be a great event for everyone who enjoys yoga or may have the desire to try it.

 

The registration package included:

  • Yoga Movement Class
  • Detroit Zoo on-site parking for the day
  • Detroit Zoo admission for the day

The response to this event has been amazing. We hope you can join us next year!

Save the Date!

Make sure you save the date next year!  The Yoga Movement will all be back at the zoo on June 28, 2015 for more yoga, great music and zoo fun!!

The response and demand have been amazing the event has already been scheduled to take place again. There will already be an announcement of the “Pose of the Month” contest.  Make sure you send your yoga poses from vacation locations across Michigan and you could win two tickets!  The winner will be announced monthly.

Enjoy your summer!

 

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Talking to Children About Divorce Takes Parental Sensitivity and Compassion!
 by Rachel Frawley

Talking to Children About Divorce Takes Parental Sensitivity and Compassion!

Talking to Children About Divorce Takes Parental Sensitivity and Compassion!  Children are affected by divorce differently at different ages and in reaction to differing circumstances in their lives. But one thing’s for certain, they need to be part of ongoing dialogue about your divorce before, during and long after so they feel connected to you, safe, secure and loved.
What should you discuss with your child – and how?

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How To Tell Your Kids That You're Getting a Divorce
 by Rachel Frawley

How To Tell Your Kids That You’re Getting a Divorce

The divorce of one’s parents is a memorable moment for any child not only because it is a major change, but because it is a major change in the foundation that their life has been built upon – family. Your children might have heard stories about divorce from their friends. They may have noticed that you are not getting along with your spouse, or they may have heard you arguing.

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5 TIPS FOR TALKING TO YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT DIVORCE
 by Rachel Frawley

5 Tips For Talking To Your Children About Divorce

Tip #1: It’s not their fault:

Children tend to assume they’re at fault when mom and dad break up, as unreasonable as it seems. They feel as if they had made better grades, behaved better, or didn’t misbehave, that their parents would get along better. Tell your child that they are not to blame at all. But be honest with them about the problems between you and your ex without placing blame on either of you. Explain how it is a joint decision.

Tip #2: Reassure, reassure, reassure:

Pick a time that doesn’t conflict with tests or special occasions to talk about the breakup. Be willing to talk again when your children have questions and that you’ll answer them as best you can. A break-up means the end of the life your children have known. It is a loss that they will feel deeply. Let them be honest in expressing their feelings, even if it’s uncomfortable for you.

Tip #3: Provide stability and routine:

Tell your children the things that are going to change, and how the family will be dealing with these changes. But, more importantly, stress the things that will stay the same, i.e., their bedroom, house rules, and your love for them.

Tip #4: Be committed to listening:

Listen with understanding when your children vent anger, or seem dejected and aloof. Try to encourage talk at those times, to let them know you care, and that their feelings are normal. Support them by telling them that you’ll deal with each detail together, as it comes up.

Tip #5: Say only positive things:

Try to say only positive things about your ex-spouse, unless that’s totally not possible. In that case, it is better that you don’t say anything! Try not to burden your children with the issues that are breaking you and your spouse up. Children will begin to feel that they must choose, or take sides with, one or the other parent. This is not good for them or you.
By being considerate with your children about your divorce, you can ease their tensions. Focus on supporting them and they will emerge from the turmoil of emotions a lot more confident and strong. And above all, feel loved.

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